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Day 04 — Something you have to forgive someone for.

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really hard to not carry around grudges.  I really do.  I do not do well with conflict.  I am SUCH an emotional person, that when conflict arises, it seriously just kills me emotionally.  I cannot concentrate, I cannot work, I cannot sleep… it’s horrible.  All I can focus on is the conflict.  So if I am the one that caused it, I try to apologize quickly and fix it.  There are times that I may just sense something is not right and will flat out ask “have I done something to upset you?  If so, I am SO sorry.”  If someone hurts me, if they say sorry and MEAN IT - we’re cool.  PERIOD.  I don’t carry around grudges, I don’t have enough room in my heart for them.  I am frustrated with people, things, etc. in my life, but I don’t carry a grudge.  If you are sorry, then it is done.  Move on.